This page contains a selection of recent news articles and commentary about male victims of violence and abuse plus related issues. These articles are presented as a community service, and do not necessarily reflect the views of the One in Three Campaign.

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NSW Police acknowledge male victims of intimate partner violence

NSW Police today took the rare and long-overdue step of acknowledging male victims of intimate partner violence and their children with this post on their Facebook Page which is quickly going viral, with many supportive comments underneath it.

While 1 in 5 victims of intimate partner assaults attended by NSW Police are male, 1 in 3 victims of all domestic assaults attended by NSW Police are male. Let's not forget the male victims who are assaulted by other family members - sons, daughters, mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, extended members of the family.

We have heard hundreds of stories of male victims and their children being treated poorly by NSW Police over the past 5 years, so lets hope this post isn't just a PR exercise and that there is genuine cultural change on the ground.


Men are victims of domestic violence too (Hawkesbury Courier)

With White Ribbon Day focusing primarily on domestic violence against women, violence against men rarely gets recognised, despite research showing it's a serious problem in the Hawkesbury.

Males are generally the perpetrators of domestic violence (DV) but a 2011 statistical review in the Hawkesbury revealed there was one male reported for every five female DV victims.

Nationally males are the victims in one in three family violence incidents.

In the Hawkesbury, the most common violence is between parents and children.

A lack of policies and funding for men's health has prompted Hawkesbury District Health Service men's health co-ordinator, Stephen Lillie, and Hawkesbury DV officer, Constable Lesley King, to develop a Yellow Card program which focuses on male DV victims.

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Why Men Remain Silent About Domestic Violence (UK)

Why are male victims of domestic violence more likely to suffer in silence? One man explains why he kept the problem to himself...

I’m task-oriented. I will discuss my aims, my projects, my achievements with anyone.  But if you asked me how I was feeling, the answer you would get would be , “I’m fine,” even if I wasn’t.

It just wasn’t part of my nature to talk about my feelings and emotions.  If I felt hurt, I wasn’t going to make an issue of it – I certainly wouldn’t let anyone know – I’d simply dust myself down, pick myself up and carry on.   I would talk about what I could do or what I was going to do, but never about how I felt or the circumstances behind emotions.  I would say that this is true for most men that our innermost angst remains locked away in our psyche.

For a long time, I didn’t recognise the violent assaults on me as Domestic Abuse.  I’d made a wedding vow that included the words, “ for better or for worst, in sickness and in health.”   The actions perpetrated against me, I reasoned, was because of some undiagnosed illness caused by the stress of bereavement and maybe even physiological changes due to childbirth.  My pleas to my ex-wife to seek medical attention for her extreme anger outbursts were ignored.

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Domestic violence group White Ribbon Australia in domain name dispute

Leading domestic violence prevention group White Ribbon Australia is considering legal action against a US men's rights group which has launched a rival website named, claiming that abuse against women is overstated at the expense of men.

White Ribbon Australia chief executive Libby Davies accused the Texas-based group, A Voice for Men, of trying to undermine its campaign to prevent violence against women and children.

"A Voice for Men is using almost fraudulent practices to guide people away from White Ribbon by using a url called," she told a Senate committee hearing into domestic violence.

White Ribbon Australia, which uses the domain name, has sought legal advice to see what action can be taken against the US site which is asking for donations to fund its defence.

A Voice for Men founder Paul Elam denied fraudulent use of the domain name, saying that he was the legal owner.

"The term 'white ribbon' is not trademarked except by a wine company in the United States," he said.

"There is no trademark infringement here. The domain is legally owned by me. I fail to see where any notion of fraud might be."

Speaking at the public hearing of the federal inquiry, Ms Davies claimed an Australian men's group, the One in Three Campaign, was also trying to derail the domestic violence message.

"We find their strategies very disrespectful," she said. "We have not used similar strategies to undermine them."

One in Three Campaign representatives Greg Andresen and Andrew Humphreys told the hearing they were speaking up for male victims of domestic violence whose plight was ignored due to the focus on women, calling for more male-only support services.

"We want to see male victims acknowledged . . . male victims need to feel more comfortable coming forward," Mr Andresen said. "There is a stigma."

The Australian Bureau of Statistics' personal safety survey found that 16.9 per cent of women had experienced partner violence since the age of 15 compared with 5.3 per cent of men.

Mayet Costello, research manager of Australia's National Research Organisation for Women's Safety, acknowledged that men also suffer violence but were at lower risk than women.

"Resources should be directed to where they are most needed," she said.

Larissa Waters, the Greens senator who initiated the inquiry, said it revealed the widespread prevalence of domestic violence despite a national plan to reduce the problem.

"We are seeing escalating violence against women and their children and when you look at the budget, it cuts many of the services women need to escape violence," she said.

"The cuts to housing and to community legal centres will keep women in violent situations. They have nowhere to go and that is the most tragic thing."

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New Anglicare WA Report finds over half of DV victims are male for some forms of abuse

Anglicare WA have just released their Community Perceptions Report 2014: Family And Domestic Violence.

The report found that between 18 per cent and over 50 per cent of victims of domestic and family violence were male, depending on the kinds of violent and abusive behaviours surveyed.

Percentage of victims that were male for different behaviours:

  • Isolating behaviours - over 50% (exact figures not published)
  • Shamed on social media - over 50% (exact figures not published)
  • Being pushed, slapped, punched, choked or kicked - 42.6%
  • Being induced to physical or emotional exhaustion - 41.0%
  • Mind games and manipulation - 41.0%
  • Being stalked or followed - 35.7%
  • Forced sexual contact or coercion - 18.2%

The report also found that between 14 per cent and 35 per cent of perpetrators of domestic and family violence were female, depending on the kinds of violent and abusive behaviours surveyed.

Percentage of perpetrators that were female for different behaviours:

  • Threats, put-downs, insults or shouting at someone - 35.0%
  • Belittling someone’s views or opinions- 32.0%
  • Verbally shaming, humiliating or degrading someone - 23.5%
  • Being overly critical of daily things - 23.1%
  • Threatening physical violence or harm - 22.2%
  • Played mind games on another - 14.3%

Despite this overwhelming evidence that male victims and female perpetrators of domestic and family violence make up a substantial proportion of affected persons, they were completely excluded from Anglicare WA's recommendations - as if they didn't exist at all.

Here are some quotes from the Report's recommendations (our emphasis):

"A scoping and mapping exercise in Western Australia, to determine where the needs are in terms of service provision for men’s behaviour change programs."

"The provision of adequate resources and funding for services by state and federal government, in order to promote appropriate early intervention opportunities to men who use violence and abuse against their families."

"The alignment of any men’s behaviour change program with standards associated with evidenced based best practice principles and cultural competence."

"Abusive men are capable of using non-abusive ways of relating. Our community needs to promote values associated with high expectations of evidenced based behaviour change."

"Anglicare WA advocates that long-term strategies and partnerships in relation to crisis, medium and sustainable accommodation need further funding and resourcing to provide more safe places for women and children."

You can download the report from here.